Amy is a friend of mine who is single and out in the exciting world of dating.  She is sharing her latest experience regarding a recent friendship which was less then what she’d hoped for.  Amy is confident that by divulging her experience she can help other women understand what to consider when they are eager for a relationship in today’s single world. Finding a partner means not being fooled by someone playing a game or an encounter with a man who is really acting instead of being honest about his intentions.  Thank you Amy and I hope this helps other young and old single women today.  This grandma says…read it and learn more about what you don’t want from men today.  

Girls don’t fall for the players

How many times can one girl make the same mistakes? We need to stop and ask ourselves are we constantly falling for a player. If you have ever thought “I can’t believe I fell for that” or “Wow, I really feel like he isn’t telling me something” or even “I thought I was the only one” chances are you may have been played! We as girls need to know how to spot a player. We all know that the world has a ton of them they can be classified: as mysterious, hot, steamy, and they normally have you in their trap before you even know it! I have personally fallen for a few players (give or take) and each time I vow that I’m not going to let that occur again. Then it happens another time…. I was once asked in an interview what my biggest weakness was and I laughed and said “men, especially the players,” I didn’t get the job.

I ‘m writing this today because, I don’t want your sandcastle to get blown over, like mine does; the heartbreak stays for a long time.  We spend our lives working on being who we are and we need to let the players know we are not having anymore tears and broken hearts over guys who don’t even deserve us.

As for me I’ve decided I’m not going to let this re-occurring trend keep me from my happiness of finding a great man. They say” nice guys finish last” that’s because us girls take a while to figure out that we keep getting played by the players and the nice guys don’t even have a chance.

Friends, we need to realize what we really want; someone that will care about us and treat us right and yes there are good looking men out there that are not players.  Use your girl power and intuition when it comes to looking for relationships, if it seems too good to be true or you have an unsettling feeling you may be dealing with a player. Be strong and move on! My experience your stomach or gut feeling is usually right…I hope I finally figured that out and that I listen to my intellect and not my emotions…  Let me know if you agree.

Amy