Blame Game even I

I should be tired of blaming this and that for the ills of my life or the things that I didn’t do however, isn’t it  easier to claim someone else is the reason I made that choice rather then faulting myself or admitting I may be the obstacle for my lack of whatever it is I’m lamenting  today. Therefore I’m proclaiming we all re-evaluate ourselves as the possible obstruction for not achieving everything you’ve ever wanted and instead think about the reality of going out there and making it happen now instead of continuing to feel sorry for yourself understand this is easier said then done although shouldn’t we at least give this some thought and try to move on and forget the things which make you sad every time you reflect upon them and if your honest with yourself and it happened years ago it can never be regained especially if it’s a career or family choice or horrific abuse you lived through, therefore you have to be willing to let it go and consider blaming won’t do anything other then bring back all the old feelings which consume you with sorrow and prevent you from living today.

Most of us upon thinking about our lives remember choices we made which gave us a different path other then what we planned for whether we went to college or instead married and began raising families right out of high school and could only think about that career or passion they never got to experience.  Or  those who came from neglected or abused homes, life was always tough and often the mental and physical abuse beyond what most of us are able to understand and what do we say  in order to help them let go of the past and forgive the wrongdoer so they are able to achieve a better life perhaps listen and tell them your so glad they shared their terror and maybe now they can move on because they realize someone cares about what happened to them and are willing to support them now so they can work towards a better existence.  There are so many reasons for blaming and sometimes they are righteous as many lives were not great and certainly not fair however its tomorrow we should focus on or we doom ourselves for a long wait to serenity and true happiness.  So now that I’ve added to your feelings of being depressed and melancholy what is the alternative to feeling better about life when blaming others felt so good or so you thought when really as you analyze it the emotions you feel are the abuse loss or sadness you felt then all over again.  Therefore continuing to allow yourself to enter back into those times is destructive and counterproductive and holds you back from what you could really sense about the positive things life has to offer.

Thus “let it go” Pastor Jerry from the Chapel say today, (I watched and listened to last weeks sermon on television) malice, envy, hatred, blame, jealousy, are corrosive feelings which will destroy you ability to feel free and vindicated as you meander through life which can end in a heartbeat and today I’m convinced it has to start with you and me and we have to subside the past allow ourselves to decide what we’ve  been harboring that we will let go of so we can free up space in our bodies and minds for the good things feeling confident doing more of what makes you happy and dreaming of what you still can do and then going out there and making it happen. So today there is one major occurrence in my life which I have pity parties for myself and I’m going to work on letting it go as it’s been over 20 years and I still can’t bury the feelings or let go of who was to blame therefore if I can do it maybe so can too  Yaw Think? God I hope so because all of those things can get so old and make you so tired.  Best of luck as you attempt (like me) to let go of the past and completely focus on the present and the future.