Comments on: Life, camera, too much action

By: drg

drg — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 05:47:25 +0000

By: joared

joared — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 05:24:09 +0000

I should have added, that sometimes it’s hard to recognize what I can change and what I can’t — I do sometimes err in that regard.

By: dorothy

dorothy — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:29:03 +0000

Thanks for all the great advice I am feeling better and you’ve helped especially knowing that I’m not alone. We all seem to handle these times differently and it helps a great deal to hear how we all get by these times.

Dorothy from grammology
grammology.com

By: joared

joared — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 09:00:41 +0000

I don’t know when it happened, but I ceased to expend energy thinking about changing what I can’t change. I do enjoy thinking at night before I go to sleep, but generally my thoughts are all pleasant — intentionally. At least for now, I’ve evolved into a “going with the flow” state. I think we all go through periods of fretfulness to relative calm, so just have to make it through which sounds like what you’ve been successfully doing these years, so stick with the ship.

By: OldOldLady Of The Hills

OldOldLady Of The Hills — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 02:45:29 +0000

LOVED the pictures, Dodothy…..It looks like a Wonderful placw!

By: Diane J Standiford

Diane J Standiford — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 14:37:51 +0000

No sleep=haunting mind. I agree with The Little Old Lady from the Hills, I used to fall asleep with police scanner on. Sometimes our brain needs SOMETHING to work out besides nasty dust bunnies of life. I am big on doing to make a regret go away, or at least give us peace with it. make it into a positive for your days ahead. Let it push you to do something in a different way, a way you will never regret. Hugs

By: Chris B

Chris B — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 02:53:16 +0000

Dorothy,
Gosh, I think you’re on the same page as I am these days! Get a good night’s sleep and that will help, I know!! Take care.

By: PJ

PJ — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:30:27 +0000

my dear friend, big hugz to you first off. i used to regret things that have or haven’t happened in my life, but when i finally realized that there wasn’t anything i could do about the past the regrets became obsolete. everything that has happened in my life has brought me to the now. even though some of the things weren’t always right or always nice or always pleasant, they happened, and i learned something from them. are there lots of things that i would like to do, damn right, but if they don’t happen i will be all right with that too. i appreciate life right now and enjoy the wonderful simple things of nature.

i don’t know what kind of things you are talking about that you feel you may not squeeze into whatever time you have left, but i would say to think about how important those things are to you. i mean, seriously, if they are something that you feel absolutely must be done, then do them. if not, then forget about them. we are here for such a short time if you look at the big picture, to spend that time worrying instead of enjoying is kind of a shame. chin up sweetie and enjoy. much love to you…xoxox!

By: Maria @ Conversations with Moms

Maria @ Conversations with Moms — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:59:14 +0000

My husband was out for about 3 months with severe back pain, it was terrible for him. I hope David heals quickly.

By: A.Marie

A.Marie — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 15:55:39 +0000

Hi there! This reminds me of something my own Grandma used to say, “The Past is in the Past….let it go.” My dear Grandma was soooo smart! I sometimes will lie awake wondering if the decisions that I have made, in the past, have been the right ones. But, you know what? God will make the crooked paths straight!