Continuing to ask me what I want in my life

I’m wondering why I asked myself if I was doing all the things I wanted to do in my life as now I can’t get it out of my mind.  It’s become my newest obsession and I’m really surprised as I always thought I’d completed a lot of things I always wanted to do  that is, before my own expose.  Then it came to me as I’m sure it will to you; we tell ourselves we’re alright with our lives however, in reality there is much we dream about in secret not daring to venture forward for fear of defeat...

Then I looked up the word defeat and was surprised to see failure, baffle, and the word losing describing what it meant to be defeated.  Now I’m really motivated  and convinced I’ll not go forward doing more of the things I want to do and the only way to accomplish this; establish my plan of action.  Plan of action what the hell does that mean and how does one go about accomplishing such a task?  I’m not one to accept loosing and I’ve been known to never give up,  so why when this is so important to my personal life wouldn’t I move forward and change just a few things for me.   Thus here is my plan after reading my dam article again:

Once a week meet a friend or family member to see each other and just relax and discuss what’s important to us while learning to listen as well as talk while we’re together.

Sign up for a yoga class to learn how to meditate as I’ve been told this is very good for your mind, spirit and body and with my cancer I need to stay focused on good thoughts.

So here I am meditating and dreaming about what else I can do with my life.

Remember the road to hell is paved with good intentions; don’t allow yourself to be secretly dreaming about what you want in life and not do something about it.

Make yourself select goals, one or two things which are achievable within your lifestyle and try to accomplish one of them this week keeping it simple so it doesn’t add stress to your life. Walking in a mall not buying anything can be fun if you allow yourself to enjoy the surroundings. Observing people can be pretty entertaining so watch those around you while you buy yourself a coffee or tea and relax and soon the season’s decorations will be up.  The music and the smell the holidays can make you feel great.

This morning I’m meeting my sister at Kohl’s department store; I received a coupon for an additional 30% off of our purchases today and we’re shopping for some Christmas gifts. With the economy the way it is, we can shop together save money and afterwards take that time to visit and find out what’s up in our lives.  This will be my first time to do something like this with my sister and my niece.  I’m really excited she suggested we meet as it falls within my plan of action for my new life so I’ll let you know how it goes today. 

I’ll be looking for a place where I can begin a yoga class it’s easy to say you want to do it however, you have to make the commitment which I hope to do this week. You’ll be my motivation now that I’ve told you what I want to do and  I  can’t disappoint my readers so make me accountable  by asking me how I’m doing so I have to follow through on my goals.

Wondering if you’re doing anything like this and how you keep the momentum going once you determine what you want to do.  I’ll be back leaving to see my sister and niece and shop.

Blessings Dorothy